Virginity?

I was wondering what the rest of you guys on here though about it. Is it a big deal? Are you going to wait? Or what?

Oooooh big subject.

I used to think that it was a really huge deal. I was in my school's abstinence club and I just kept asking myself what the big deal was about sex. Somehow, though, over these past few years my views on it have become much more lenient, mostly because I don't expect people to be angels and I don't even expect myself to be that way.

As to whether I'm waiting, I haven't definitely said that I am....it's going to be something that I will just have to decide as I go. *shrug*

There is nothing wrong with it....I don't see it as a big deal. Most people in my town, school, and state don't view it as a big deal if you do or you don't.

Ooh, big topic.

Hmm, I'm mixed views. I don't think kids should have sex, it's just not necessary. But if you're old enough to make your own decisions (upperclassmen in high school seems to reach that point in my mind) and you think you're ready and know the risks I don't see why not.

I don't know what I'll do. I'll see when I find a guy I like.

Umm, marriage. If you can't wait, then get married to someone really great early.

I view this as a free will thing. It's YOUR decision....

I'm the same way. Virginity and views on sex are a very personal thing. My opinion however, is that I think you should wait for someone you're really in love with. And kids simply don't know what that means. They think they do, but they don't.
I had one person I was waiting for. I had dreams about a person for years, and when I met him finally, I'd already been in love with him for years, so it wasn't a big deal for me to give my virginity to him.