The Advice Thread.

Yeah totally. Bye!

heres one...

My friend and i were having a convo through aim...

and he was having a huge problem with his parents and then he told me that a girl that he had been with a few months ago had been pregnant and that she was forced to get an abortion... He was really upset about it... he was looking forward to being a father.

So i told him that if he waited a year adn after i moved out of my moms house and i was able to support myself that i would give him that child... should i have done this...

I'm not being selfish... i am helping him out... but i'm not sure if i'm doing it anyways... i mean... yeah, i want kids before i'm thirty but with the right person... but it's not like we'd get married anyways... he's gay...

ha ha thats okay... the thing is we also talked about what we would do about school after that... and we found that there are a few good things about doing this and a few bad things... but i told him to wait a year... that will give him time to think about it... and me to forget i even promised

i think i'm going to... i mean... yeah i know that i'm ready for kids... but i am waiting till i find the right person.

very true. Thats what i think i am going to tell him.

me too. I wonder what Alice is going to say... have you spoken to her lately... i haven't seen her in forever

so do i...

Aluna, oh no no no. That was a bad idea. But its like Phoebe off of friends...never mind. But my oh my, that was not a good idea. Just take what Maddie said!

Teah it is!

Hmm... No offense, guys, but telling me how you and your friend Tara played halo for 10 1/2 hours doesn't really solve my problem, does it???

i am going to talk to him... and i know how it was with phoebe.. and we are both in agreance that we would both be the parent. but i still want to iron this out!

umm Aluna?

no offense or anything, but HAVE YOU LOST YOUR MIND?!?!?!?!?

WTV did you do that for???
how do you know how you'll be in a year?

I am terrible at this but I agree with Madz

i know... hence why i am going to talk to him... i have discussed this with one of my friends and she agrees with you guys... and besides... i want to go to college in 2009... well university ... im getting certified in something so that i can have some way to pay for college!

I have opted not to do him the favor... part of me hates myself for breaking the promise... but the other part of me knows that this is for the best and that basically wins!

Umm, Sonia WHAT WAS YOUR HURTNESS THING? I haven't been on here so I have nooo idea

Here was my problem, for anyone who didn't see it. It has not improved- help is greatly appreciated!!!

Sonia Cullen wrote:

Oh, yeah!

And yes, I am happy about Boarding School!!!

Ok, I have a problem.

I go to a private school were there are only like 20 girls in my grade. We have a queen bee who's name is Tara. I'm not sure why, but she really hates me, more than anyone else. She calls me anorexic and asian, as well as tons of other things, even though I repeatedly tell her not to, as I am neither of those things. She hates me even more now, because she was telling everybody rumors about me, and I got mad, so I put an enormous beetle in her purse. About 3/4 of the grade sides with her, and I don't know what to do!!! Help me, please??

My mom says that she probably feels threatened, but I don't know. I've never found myself particularly pretty or anything, so I don't know how she would feel threatened.

Another thing that really bugs me is that she makes fun of my accent, like, a lot. Every time she speaks to me, she makes her voice have a really fake english accent or whatever, even though I don't have an english accent. I have a French Accent, and she just won't drop it!!!

I know that my problem isn't nearly as major as Twirlz or Madz's, but help would be greatly appreciated!!!!

Sonia, she probably is just jealous... and just don't let it bother you. If you don't let it get to you, eventually she will get it in her thick bitch ass skull that it isn't bothering you. Who cares what she thinks. She's just going to end up on drugs and pregnant before she is even out of high school... and besides... youre way better than she is.

And you will be out of that school soon. And where you're going... she won't be.

I was bullied in school so i can sympathize... i know it sounds like it won't work... but in the long run... it does.